I am 35 my husband is 51. We have been married 9 months. He was single for 5 years and did not date any sort?

got not used to going out and doing alot of things. He did this because he was christian and was waiting on the right woman from God. When we were dating and first married he initiated alot and was very attentive. Now he seems more moody which he may have been this way before we started dating too. He no longer initiates and at one point would try to avoid kissing me during but would kiss me bye of the morning. He has talked about his past home and mentioned about trying to purchase a new home for us because he wants to give me something. I think he is reminiscing about the past and concerned about the future. He says he loves me and that I make him happy. He also mentioned about fixing up a camaro he has and he gets restless alot. Before we were married we talked about that neither one of us likes go all the time. He's mentioned that the clothes he has are old and had them for a while. He has gained weight. I believe it bothers him that I don't make alot more money than I do and he may contribute that to part of his thinking we can't afford a house someday. Also, he can see me naked and he tells me I pretty and y but he did not get turned on. I am thinking more about the emotional arousel than the physical. I have mentioned things to him and he has started being more attentive. I even had suspicions of him cheating but I know he would no do so and I did confront him. He told me that he would not becaused he feared God and he knew that I was the one. Anyways could he be dealing with male menopause?