Internet chatting question?

How about trying to say something like..."I'm not as good as I could be, thanks" or perhaps...." Not as good as I want to be right now, but am working on it". To not answer at all is a little on the rude side, and no reason to lower yourself to her standards level, there are LOTS of people out there to talk to, don't pick the ones that treat you rudely. And then there is always the truth...When asked how you are doing, tell them the truth..."I'm feeling a little depressed right now, but thanks for asking." and maybe, just maybe, that person might actually be able to help you in some way. You never know until you are honest. Give it a try and see. Hope this helped you some.